The law of attraction is always working in your life, so if you are attracting losers, then something about what you are doing is attract those losers. In other words, the universe is hearing that you want losers, so it’s finding ways to bring them to you! But, you can tell the universe something different if you want.
- 1 Why It’s So Hard To Make The Law Of Attraction Work Positively For Attracting Someone
- 2 Always Focus On What Your Heart Desires Most
- 3 Don’t Label Yourself Negatively
- 4 A New Way To Look At Who You Are Attracting
- 5 Enjoy Your Single Life To Attract A Relationship
- 6 Trust In The Law Of Attraction For Relationships You Want
- 7 The Law Of Attraction Is Going To Work For You One Way Or Another
Why It’s So Hard To Make The Law Of Attraction Work Positively For Attracting Someone
The law of attraction says that you attract into your life what you think about most, and when you are single it is hard not to think about being single most of the time! For instance, you can easily focus on being lonely, which only attracts more loneliness into your life.
It’s hard not to worry about attracting losers into your life that are going to treat you the same way your exes did.
It’s also hard not to think about your next relationship falling apart, going through many struggles, and ending badly. But, all of this only attracts more unhealthy and unhappy relationships.
Knowing all of that, it is no surprise that the law of attraction doesn’t often work for attracting the perfect relationship. Too many people are simply tuned into the wrong thoughts and wrong vibration to attract their ideal partner. Following are some ways to fix that and start making the law of attraction for relationships work for you.
Always Focus On What Your Heart Desires Most
You probably know that you need to focus on exactly what you want in a partner. For instance, creating a list of all the things you are looking for in someone can help you keep focused on that person and that future relationship. It is a great way to keep your expectations high and not allow yourself to develop a mindset of settling for whoever shows up next.
But, the biggest thing to remember is that you have to focus on what you want more than on what you don’t want. For instance, you want to focus on making your next relationship an amazing one instead of one that matches your past relationships.
That can be easier said than done, but remember that by labeling your future relationships as negative, you are attracting negative relationships into your life.
That’s why it’s important to look at your list of your perfect partner AND label your future relationships as positive, fun, rewarding, exciting, and fulfilling. Focus on what your heart desires most by visualizing a happy relationship and getting excited for all the love and fun you will be feeling.
Don’t Label Yourself Negatively
Another problem is self-doubt and low self-confidence. If you think that you are not worthy of attracting a great partner, then guess what you are going to manifest into your life? You are going to manifest someone who meets your vibration about how you feel about yourself.
Starting today, work on your confidence. Use positive affirmations and positive self-talk to boost your view of yourself and raise your energy. Become the fun, awesome person that you want to attract into your life and let the universe take care of the rest.
A New Way To Look At Who You Are Attracting
There is a thought that the perfect partner is going to be sunshine and lollipops, but the truth is the perfect partner for you may not result in a bump-free relationship. They may not be the ‘perfect’ vision you have in your mind, but they may be perfect for you.
In other words, if you think you are doing everything right to attract love, you may also be doing everything right to attract someone who will help you develop patience, understanding, or whatever else you want (or need) to develop. Listen to Jack Canfield explain it.
Enjoy Your Single Life To Attract A Relationship
It is important to enjoy your life as a single person. You can desire the perfect partner, but if you feel that life is not complete without someone else, then you are sending negative messages to the universe that you don’t want to feel complete. (Remember, what you focus on most is what the universe thinks you want to attract.) Those messages will set you up to attract someone who makes you feel as though you are not complete.
That rule stands true for every negative belief. For instance:
– If you are not happy, you will attract someone who doesn’t make you unhappy
– If you do not feel like people in your life are honest, you will attract someone who is not honest
– If you feel like people in your life don’t treat you with respect, you will attract someone who does not treat you with respect
The qualities that you have, and beliefs you have about yourself and your current relationships, will have a direct influence over the type of person you attract.
So, clear out your current life of unhealthy relationships, become confident in yourself and how you feel other people should treat you, and get ready to attract that perfect person into your life.
Trust In The Law Of Attraction For Relationships You Want
Some people who are religious have an unwavering trust in their faith. They give their desires and concerns to a higher power, and they let that power take care of their life. If you ever take notice of their successes and failures, you will often see that their faith plays a huge part in the whole thing.
Just like love, joy, and anger are vibrations of energy, so is faith – and it is a high and powerful vibration. In short, faith will help you attract what you expect.
So, whether you are religious or not, have faith that the law of attraction is going to work for you. Have faith that the universe is going to bring you exactly what you desire most in a partner as long as you keep your thoughts positive and your vibration high. Have faith that like attracts like and you will attract someone decent and loving into your life.
If you need some help believing that you are destined for success, I highly recommend taking Manifestation Miracle. The first part will help you feel destined for success.
The Law Of Attraction Is Going To Work For You One Way Or Another
Here’s what I know for sure – Whether you use the above tips or not, the law of attraction is always working in your life. Depending on your thoughts and energy, you may attract no one into your life, someone unwanted into your life, or the perfect relationship into your life.
The good news is that you have the choice to tweak your thoughts, raise your vibration, and attract that perfect someone. Changing your viewpoint about your future relationships and your current self can be hard, but it can be done. So why not make the law of attraction work in your favor?