Christie Marie Sheldon has changed many people’s lives for the better by helping them move towards more happiness and more abundance. She has one of the most popular courses on MindValley, called Unlimited Abundance, which helps people clear out the blocks holding them back from manifesting the life that they want. I’ve taken the course and I highly recommend it! She also has a course called Love or Above, which is a course I have in my MindValley account but haven’t touched yet. I’m getting there!
Christie Marie Sheldon Quotes That Scream Christie
If you haven’t watched Christie Marie Sheldon speak, the above pic says it all. She is always laughing and smiling, which is a big part of what drew me to her in the first place. The following quotes will give you a better idea of what she’s like, especially in her courses.
It funny because I can hear her saying the words – in her own voice with a little giggle afterward – as I read them back to myself because she has such a unique voice and way of talking. You will know what I mean if you ever take one of her courses, attend one of her talks, or get coached by her.
1. Connecting To The Light
You can’t feel fear in the same way if you’re actually connected to an expanded state.
In Christie Marie Sheldon’s courses, you learn about connecting to the light. Basically, you connect to an energy above and below, and then you expand your energy out.
Connecting to the light, or to something bigger than me, helps me stay focused and grounded. It helps me stay in the present moment. It kind of makes me feel big and powerful and connected to everyone around me. And, she’s right, I don’t have time to feel fear or any negative emotions when I’m connected. Instead, I feel like I’m in the flow and in tune with my intuition and inner self.
In other words, it’s a great tool for expelling negative emotions that make you feel chaotic and getting back to a more grounded place.
She has said that she is always connected to the light, which must mean she is always in an expanded state. Her rule is ABC: Always Be Connected.
2. Another Reason To Connect To The Light
You’re bringing in light from everywhere and then you’re expanding it out so your energy is giving and receiving simultaneously.
As I said, you are supposed to connect to an energy above and below and then expand your energy out. Christie Marie Sheldon gets you to expand it across the world. I’ve always thought that this was to make you bigger and connect you to everything and everyone. But, then I listened to a talk she was giving and got this quote from her about giving and receiving energy.
It makes sense. If you are taking in energy and giving out energy, you are living in a state of balance. It’s just as important to give as it is to take. I learned that a long time ago. I think what we give out in terms of energy – love, patience, kindness – we get back.
3. How To Get Back A Ton Of Ideas To Help You Reach Your Dreams
When people sometimes do the ‘I am’ statements – like ‘I am powerful’, ‘I am this’, ‘I am whatever’ – they don’t always fully believe it, right? So I like to say ‘What would it take?’ So, ‘What would it take for a million dollar idea to show up in my world?’ When I’m saying ‘What would it take?’ it’s like I’m expanding my energy out into the universe to allow unlimited possibilities to show back up.
Christie Marie Sheldon says that doing this will allow a bunch of possibilities to come back into your life. It will open up the door for more than just one way to get what you want out of life.
‘I am’ statements are affirmations.
- They are a way of reminding yourself of where you want to be and who you want to be.
- They are a way of affirming that you require no less out of life than happiness.
- They are also a way of keeping yourself focused on what you want, not on what you DON’T want.
I believe in positive affirmations and I recommend using them to help you create a better life.
But, she’s right, sometimes it can be hard to fully believe what you are saying. The old trick of faking it until you make it is usually used. But, using questions that start with ‘What would it take…?’ can help you draw in helpful answers and help you have an easier time focusing on where you want to be and who you want to be.
4. Why Your Manifestations Stop In Their Tracks
Your problem is you have all these stuck things that are subconsciously hanging out and you go to make a choice in your world and these things kick in, and that’s where you say ‘I was starting to manifest something and it didn’t happen’.
I have had ‘almost manifestations’. For instance, on another blog that I was very passionate about, I wanted it to really pick up and kick ass with single men. I wanted to show them a way to connect with women that didn’t involve games and manipulation. I affirmed I could do it. I believed it. And, I started to notice real, concrete results – and fast.
Then, my subconscious beliefs – or limiting beliefs – kicked in. I thought, ‘Why would single men want to listen to me when there are plenty of guys out there giving them pick-up-artist advice?’ You see, guys who are in the PUA game are very vocal about how women don’t understand themselves and how men are the only ones who know how to get women. (Insert eye roll here.)
Since I heard that notion enough, I guess I subconsciously believed that guys would not be open to my blog. As soon as I started thinking that, my numbers went down. My traffic went down. My sales went down. My manifestation had started, but then it didn’t happen.
A year later, when I removed that limiting belief and realized I had a lot of advice and insight to offer, my numbers went back up.
The problem is, according to Christie Marie Sheldon, that a judgment has a subset of beliefs that can block you from manifesting what you want.
For instance, I believe single men would rather take advice from guys in the PUA world. Subset beliefs were that I wasn’t worthy of listening to, I didn’t know enough about men, and guys would bash me on PUA blogs and ruin my reputation. Add all those beliefs up and it made it hard to do what I needed to do to bring my vision to life.
In short, it’s important to remove your judgments. It’s important to remove those limiting beliefs that could have a ton of smaller (but just as devastating) beliefs attached to them.
5. Your Soul Loves You Enough…
Your soul loves you enough that it’s going to bring up all your crap so that you can see it. And if you just keep going for it, eventually all those judgments will go away.
Christie Marie Sheldon has said ‘Your soul loves you enough…’ as the start to a lot of her statements. But this quote really sums up what she means.
Your soul loves you enough to bring up the crap so that you can work through it and overcome it, and then you can lead a happier and more rewarding life. And you DO need to face the crap before your life becomes better!
For example, my soul loved me enough to introduce me to a bunch of jerks. At the time, I felt like dating a bad guy was cool. I also felt like I deserved a bad guy. But, I still wanted the fairytale romance with a guy who was kind, protective, and loving.
I needed to get rid of the negative judgment that I deserved a bad guy (and all the little judgments that came with it). I needed to learn that I was worthy of dating someone amazing, not cringe-worthy. And, until I actually learned that lesson, I attracted jerk after jerk after jerk into my life.
My soul also loved me enough to show me over and over again how judgmental I was being of others by CONSTANTLY putting me in the path of people who would bring out my inner Judge Judy.
But I’m glad it happened. The more I worked on NOT judging others, the easier life became in so many ways.
So, if you keep running into jerks, losers, angry people, negative situations, or the same old crap – ask yourself what your soul is trying to show you.
6. Ask Yourself Lofty Questions
A lofty question is a question that skyrockets you and lifts you. It skyrockets the universe into positively manifesting your dreams.
Lofty is defined as ‘elevated in character and spirit or status’. In other words, it just means better.
What Christie Marie Sheldon means by this is to stop asking yourself questions that keep you stuck in a negative state. Stop asking, ‘Why does this have to happen to me?’ or ‘Why am I the only one who works around here?’ These questions are keeping you stuck in a lower vibration and, as she says, the universe will give you the answers to these questions because that’s what you are focused on. The problem is that the answers such as, ‘Everyone else always gets away with doing nothing all day, so why would they change?’ will just make you more upset and keep you in that negative state.
What she suggests is asking better questions, such as “Why am I so amazing?’ or ‘How can I get more than enough money?’ or ‘What’s a plan of action that will help me reach the life of my dreams?’
By asking that last question, for example, you are not stuck on an unhelpful question such as, ‘Why can’t I reach the life of my dreams?’ which will give you answers like ‘you don’t have enough money’ or ‘your job sucks’ or ‘so-and-so is holding you back’. Instead, you are asking for an answer that will actually show you how to get the life of your dreams!
7. Ask For What You Want
There is no request that is too big or too small.
This quote is simple, but it’s powerful. It’s a reminder that our wildest dreams may seem big, but we are capable of asking the universe for them and getting the help we need to reach them.
The other day, I wrote an article with quotes from Vishen Lakhiani, and one of the quotes is about how he thinks setting realistic goals is the dumbest idea ever. Why? Asking for realistic things is easy and doable, but it doesn’t help you expand your life in a big way.
I guarantee all those amazing things you really want in life are outside of the ‘possibility’ right now. When you ask for what you want, such a big house by the lake, an extra-loving partner, or a CEO job, you start to get people and circumstances into your life that help you move towards those things. Your thoughts and beliefs start to change. And, the closer you get to those crazy dreams, the more realistic they seem.
Remember what Christie Marie Sheldon says as you go after the big things: There are unlimited possibilities in life. Even if a ton of other people have what you want, you can still get it. And, even if no one has what you want, you can still get it.
8. Use Your Intuition
The more you use your intuition, the more you viewpoint expands.
More awareness is essential to more of everything. With a limited awareness of life, you live a limited life. You just have to look at the most close minded person you know to see how limited life can get.
Your viewpoint and awareness go hand in hand. Your awareness around subjects, people, culture, business, health, etc., impacts your point of view.
For instance, if you are not aware that smoking is bad for you, then your viewpoint will be that smoking is fine. Once you start to become more aware of what smoking does to your body, it becomes hard to think that smoking is fine. Then, you stop seeing life as something where smoking is permanent and you start considering a life without smoking.
How does intuition play into this? I’ve found that by following my intuition, I make choices that I wouldn’t otherwise make and that’s when my awareness opens up and my viewpoint is affected positively.
I think listening to your intuition can help you have success in every area of your life. It can also help you follow paths that lead you to what you want. And, it can help you expand your point of view on things and help you shift and grow in life.
9. Another Way To Explain Points Of View
Your reality is comprised of points of view.
Your point of view matters because it makes up your reality.
If you have the point of view that love is hard, then love will be hard! And, difficult love will continue to show up in your life over and over again.
Or, if you have the point of view that you need to be perfect, then your reality is going to be a constant string of feeling like a failure, struggle, and beating yourself up because it’s impossible to be perfect!
What points of view are creating a reality you don’t want?
10. Why Are You Not Attracting What You Want?
You can do all the self-help programs in the world, but if your vibration doesn’t match, you’re not going to attract it because there will always be a block or a void in your energy field that won’t let that occur.
I love this last quote by Christie Marie Sheldon. It is so true and it’s another one of those reasons to find a way to remove the blocks, limiting beliefs, and judgments that are holding you back in life.
You can learn all you want from people like Tony Robbins, Jack Canfield, or Oprah Winfrey, but none of their advice or lessons will affect you unless you are in the state of energy that matches those lessons.
If they are talking about something stemming from joy or even reason, and you are in a place of guilt (see diagram to the left), then you are not going to hear their message, practice it, and bring things into your life that you really want.
You won’t have the awareness or point of view to do so.
You won’t have the ability to take action on tasks that help you manifest what you want.
And you likely won’t even believe that their advice or lesson applies to you.
You can’t attract a joyful life if you are living in misery.
How do you know there is a vibrational mismatch? If you are attracting what you want, then you are vibrating at the right vibration for what you want. If you are attracting what you don’t want, then there is a mismatch.
Note: If you are interested in getting rid of limiting beliefs and judgments, changing your vibration, and attracting more of what you want into your life, then I highly recommend you check out Christie Marie Sheldon’s most popular course, Unlimited Abundance. I took it and you can read my review of Unlimited Abundance here.